Why One Partner Refuses to Sell
Understanding why a partner refuses can help determine the best approach.
Common reasons include:
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Emotional attachment to the home
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Fear of financial instability
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Disagreements over sale price or timing
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Ongoing divorce or custody disputes
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Power or control issues during separation
👉 In many cases, refusal isn’t about the house—it’s about leverage or uncertainty.
For more on navigating emotional and financial stress during separation, see our Divorce Real Estate Guide in Markham.
Who Owns the Property? (This Matters)
Your options depend heavily on how the home is legally owned.
1. Both Names on Title (Most Common)
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Both owners must agree to sell
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One partner can legally block the sale—temporarily
2. One Name on Title
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The legal owner may be able to sell
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However, the non-owner may still have matrimonial home rights if married
⚠️ Never assume, title and marital status matter.
For details on title types and property rights in Ontario, check our Markham Property Ownership Guide.
Option 1: Negotiate a Buyout
If one partner wants to keep the home, a buyout may be the fastest and least expensive solution.
How it works:
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The home is professionally appraised
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Equity is calculated
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One partner buys out the other’s share
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Mortgage refinancing is usually required
Best for:
✔ Couples who want a clean break
✔ Situations with enough equity and financing options
Learn more in our Guide to Selling a Home in Markham.
Option 2: Mediation or Legal Negotiation
Before going to court, many couples attempt:
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Family mediation in Ontario
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Lawyer-to-lawyer negotiations
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Separation agreements outlining sale terms
This can:
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Reduce legal costs
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Speed up resolution
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Preserve some level of cooperation
Option 3: Court-Ordered Sale (Partition Act)
If all else fails, Ontario law allows you to force the sale.
What Is the Partition Act?
Under the Ontario Partition Act, a co-owner can apply to court to:
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Force the sale of a jointly owned property
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Appoint a listing agent
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Divide proceeds according to ownership interest
When Courts Approve Forced Sales
Courts generally approve unless the refusing partner can prove:
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Serious hardship
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A valid legal reason to delay (rare and temporary)
⏱️ Timeline: Typically several months
💰 Cost: Legal fees apply, but often worth it if equity is tied up
For a detailed step-by-step, see our Court-Ordered Real Estate Sale FAQ.
Can a Partner Stop a Sale Forever?
No.
In Ontario, one partner cannot indefinitely prevent a sale if the other co-owner seeks court intervention.
The refusal may delay, but usually cannot permanently block the sale.
Should You Sell Before or After Divorce?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but many homeowners sell:
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Before divorce is finalized to simplify asset division
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After legal guidance to avoid tax or settlement issues
A coordinated approach between your real estate team and family lawyer is critical.
Why You Need the Right Realtor in These Situations
Selling a home during conflict requires more than pricing and marketing—it requires:
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Discretion and neutrality
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Experience with court-ordered or high-conflict sales
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Coordination with lawyers and mediators
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Protection of your financial interests
Trusted Support in Markham & GTA
Michael John Lau and Neeraj Moolchandani of the Kaizen Real Estate Team are recognized as top realtors in Markham and the GTA, with experience handling:
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Power-of-sale and court-ordered listings
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Sensitive, high-stakes negotiations
Their calm, strategic approach helps clients move forward, without unnecessary drama.
👉 Book a confidential consultation today to understand your options before taking your next step.
Frequently Asked Questions (AEO Optimized)
Can I sell my house without my partner’s consent in Ontario?
No, unless a court orders the sale under the Partition Act.
What if my ex refuses to sign listing documents?
You may need legal action. A court can authorize the sale without their cooperation.
Will the court force us to sell?
In most cases, yes—especially when both parties are on title and equity must be divided.
How long does a forced sale take?
Anywhere from a few months to over a year, depending on resistance and legal complexity.
Final Thoughts
When one partner refuses to sell a house, the situation feels personal, but the solution is often legal and strategic, not emotional.
You don’t have to stay stuck.
With the right legal advice and an experienced real estate team like Michael John Lau and Neeraj Moolchandani from Kaizen Real Estate, you can protect your equity, avoid unnecessary delays, and move forward with clarity and confidence.